tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5198545006188508296.post5083781635908451647..comments2023-06-03T05:10:31.706-07:00Comments on Truth, Dating and Romance: One of my most POWERFUL techniquesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5198545006188508296.post-65745671983063390852009-02-23T20:19:00.000-08:002009-02-23T20:19:00.000-08:00Good question, Webteam! First off, two people work...Good question, Webteam! <BR/>First off, two people working so consistently to please each other is pretty cool. If two people only do what they want to, it'll be pretty random if they find any place to connect with each other at all. This techniques is about more & deeper connections. On the other hand, this technique isn't something that you should have to apply 24 hours a day. If a relationship needs that much work, there are probably other things going on to work on. <BR/><BR/>One should always 'be true to one's self' and not be overly willing to please. When women advise guys to "be yourself," they have in mind the guy who is so concerned with connecting & pleasing, that they can't really tell who the guy is as a person.<BR/><BR/>This technique is a discovery technique, a great way to explore and understand your partner more deeply in particular situations. In essence, it's really a way to learn to read those needs that your partner may not be communicating clearly, or not even able to communicate. <BR/><BR/>Both partners should act the way they want to, and in those places where they want to be able to connect more deeply in those specific times and places.<BR/><BR/>Also worth noting is that to apply this well, you have to FEEL, more than think. here's a clue from your reply: "...both ACTING the way they THINK their partner wants them to." If a person is acting in the way they THINK their partner wants, they aren't really applying the technique. Don't think! Be AWARE of that your partner is doing and feel the feelings behind it. No tricks with mirrors needed!Jeffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18278520315231779846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5198545006188508296.post-86505514560820209702009-02-15T17:06:00.000-08:002009-02-15T17:06:00.000-08:00What happens when both parties try and apply your ...What happens when both parties try and apply your rule to the same relationship? She's mirroring what you do and you mirror what she does - it's a house of mirrors with no one acting the way they want to, both acting the way they think their partner wants them to.Mike The Spikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04165560786376743293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5198545006188508296.post-68400488291212503102009-02-14T03:17:00.000-08:002009-02-14T03:17:00.000-08:00Sounds like very good advice, sir. The applicatio...Sounds like very good advice, sir. The application to the bigger picture is the key.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02758017343271406109noreply@blogger.com